Being Around The Right People


Hi. I haven't been blogging recently for a lot of reasons. You know when you have a week or two of complete drama and a full calendar.. WELL.. yeah. But, I'm back! So, I've decided to write a different sort of post from my normal posts and it's going to be about why being around the right people is so so so important.

People who you don't want to be around are people who constantly put you down. Whether it would be someone who's constantly telling you you're doing things wrong, constantly bickering and picking over silly things, or whether it's someone who is constantly down and wants to bring others with them. Also people who only want you to do what they want you to do, people who hold you back, people who do nothing for you but expect everything from you. NO NO NO!! People who are like this are self-centered, mean, not friends. Well, these people don't have to be people who are meant to be friends, they can be boyfriends, girlfriends and possibly family. My advice, if you have someone in your life who's just going to make you feel 'down in the dumps' all the time and make you become a negative person is to please remove them from your life. No matter how hard you think it is to do this, your happiness is more important.

The meaning of friendship - "Friendship for most people is a combination of affection, loyalty, love, respect, and trust" .

People you do want to be around. These are people who support the decisions you make, people who advise you, people who go through hell with you and vise versa, people who will make every effort to keep in contact, people who make every effort to make you as happy as they can, even if they're not (but that's where you come in) and people who let you be who you are. However, I know that different people see friendship or any other sort of relationship differently. For example the people you don't want to be around. But, I know that I have always cherished everything that's come into my life, whereas people have walked in and out of my life without a care in the world. Friendship is the most important thing to me, as well as family. All friends and family come with faults but that is why we should be there for them and vise versa. Friendship and relationships should be equal.

At the end of the day, we all need to have a breath of fresh air. We all need to feel alive and we all should live our lives without people stopping us from living. Recently, I've noticed how many people were purposely making me feel negative and now I ignore it. Your happiness is everything. Respect the people who actually care and would do absolutely anything for you, and get rid of every person in your life who is negative and you will feel so much better. I promise. Being around the right people is so important and don't be afraid to tell people how you really think about something because if they were true friends they would never judge you. 

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Thank you for reading, again.

Whitney xo

1 comment on "Being Around The Right People"
  1. Great post! Everyone deserves the utmost happiness and being around the right people definitely helps! X

    - Tiffany